Goodbye, good girl! - Jak se zbavit syndromu hodné holky a začít žít – Zenina Myriam (2025)

She is as pliable as plasticine. She is always available, cannot say no, avoids conflicts, and always tries to adapt and please everyone. She suppresses her own needs and emotions to be liked by others and gain their recognition. Her wishes and desires are not a priority; the interests of others come first.
This is the "good girl" – a woman who wants to be everything to everyone because she fears she will be nothing to anyone. Deep down, she constantly asks herself: Am I good enough? Do they like me? Do they value me? Do they appreciate me? Others know this well, and so the good girl often becomes – in both her personal and professional life – an easy target for manipulators.
The life of a good girl is torn, split between what she would really like to be and what others expect of her.
The good girl does not know who she truly is. She gets lost in the ideas, wishes, and dreams of others. As a child, she was the "good little girl" – the one who "makes her parents happy." She was always "nice," "didn't misbehave," and never resisted. Her identity was shaped within the good girl syndrome.
The good girl is like someone stuck in a waiting room: waiting for love, waiting for recognition, waiting for the opinions of others. She does not see the doors that lead outside, nor the window that would allow her to glimpse life, ...