Bez trestů a odměn - Výchova spokojeného dítěte ve věku 2-8 let – Solterová Aletha (2019)

Today's parenting is undergoing a revolutionary transformation. Although our time often presents itself as an era of crisis or even the decline of family life, Aletha Solter brings a contrary, much more optimistic message: The relationships between partners and between parents and children hold a unique potential for personal and social renewal. It is important to understand the essence of love and family relationships, to begin fulfilling it as best as one can, and to pay attention not only to the children but also to oneself. The current generation of parents is privileged in that for the first time in history, they have not only their intuition for successful upbringing but also information from research convincingly demonstrating what is supportive and strengthening for the formation of a person's personality, and what is, on the contrary, disadvantageous. Therefore, it is possible to openly discuss how great a threat harmful stereotypes, unhealed wounds, and rigid internal defenses pose. Intergenerational transmission no longer needs to be perceived as a burden but rather as a significant potential internal support.